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Keys to Conflict Resolution
(adapted from Ury)
There are many resources available about how to successfully approach
conflict in non-threatening ways. Common underlying strategies include
prevention and resolution:
PREVENTION (Proactive approach)
The easiest way to resolve conflict is to catch it before
it becomes an acute problem. This includes:
- being aware of satisfying latent, unmet needs of those around
you
- heading off problems by providing more training if skills
are lacking, or
- working to build positive, respectful relationships with those
around you by improving communication skills.
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RESOLUTION (Reactive)
Once an overt conflict develops there are several ways to address
it, depending on the severity. |
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Private discussions: As soon as a conflict is detected,
the parties involved should meet to talk things out. Rules
of etiquette for successfully approaching these discussions include:
- listen with open minds
- seek to understand how the other person feels
- respect each others opinions, don't attack
- search for "win-win" solutions (Covey)
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Mediation: if informal discussions cannot resolve
the problem then it may be necessary to involve a third party
mediator. The mediator does not resolve the conflict
for the person but creates a positive environment for the two parties
to clarify their problems. |
Negotiation (Ilich): is the skill of cooperatively
reaching an agreement between sides. You may need to negotiate
about your schedule, or salary, or about your role in the process
of serving patients. |
Arbitration (Ilich): If the conflict
cannot be resolved informally or via mediation or negotiation, then
it may be necessary to have a third party, an arbiter, decide
how to resolve the dispute. |
Select Provider/Patient Cases to explore
conflict.
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